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My Girlfriend Has Incredibly Strict Rules for How We Have Sex
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Subscriber Account active since. I'm 20 years old, and I have a girlfriend who's a virgin. When we make out, I try to do my best not to put pressure on her to give me oral sex or have penetrative sex, but we've been together for two years, and nothing sexual has happened yet. I love every single cell in her body, and I don't want to bring up sex if it could hurt her or make her feel uncomfortable, but it's something I'm personally ready for in our relationship. To make matters worse, my friends know we haven't had sex and keep calling me me a "noob" and say I should be a sex expert. It's normal to feel frustrated when you and your partner seem to be on different pages sexually , but before you make any assumptions about what your girlfriend does or doesn't want in the bedroom, you should consider asking her what she wants, and letting her tell you. Even though you've mastered the art of the make-out and are ready to move onto something new and sexually exciting, it doesn't mean you have to make the leap to oral or penetrative sex.
She knows how to get herself off. Because if she already knows what she likes, it's that much easier for you to know what she likes, so you don't feel like you're playing "guess how to make me come" at a sex carnival. Also, if she doesn't know how to get herself off, you need to help her immediately because that's not OK. She feels comfortable telling you what she does and doesn't want. A lot of this could be attributed to how comfortable she feels sharing things with you because she knows you won't judge her or make her feel bad for anything, but it also means she's someone who is able to speak her mind and verbalize her needs, so she's basically a badass superhero chick because that shit is hard.
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